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Brandon98

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Staying soft at nudist camps

Does anyone have difficulty staying  soft when they are and nudist camps.  All I have to do is look at another naked guy and my dick goes full mast.  Kind of embarrassing  and irestating cuz I do not to fit in.  And yes I'm gay.

Alexdancer02

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

I wish there was a nudist camp nearby that I could go to, especially an all male gay nudist camp. Never having been to one I don't know if I would have that problem. However I do spend time naked at the gym and seeing other naked guys hasn't caused it to immediately go to full mast. So maybe it would not be a problem.

Last edited by Alexdancer02 (Jan 04, 2018 2:52:AM)

CallMeSam

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Gay or str8 camp?

coby

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

I guess the change rooms at the gym would be the closest thing to a nudest camp given the polar vortex making its way down. Anyhow i stay soft in the change rooms and imagine i would at the nudist camp. So can you compare the camp to the change room at the gym?

GRatedHobNobbr

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

It's a nudist camp. Surely they would know that guys would get full mast. Boys get boners more than men, and at embarrassing times. Getting boners is as natural as nudity. Let others get used to it. Sooner or later you'll stop getting boners because you'll get used to what is natural and they will not react.

runningjc

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

I think it depends on what type of camp you're at. If it's a men only, I wouldn't worry about it. If it's coed, know the camp rules and use good judgement if it's ok to be seen hard regularly.

I agree that getting accustomed to seeing naked guys in the gym locker room might help, but be discrete until you know you can control your attractions.

PervyBottomNicky

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Dude, you are 19.  I couldn't stay soft in Church or School when I was your age!~  It's just part of being a hot young guy.  You are gonna spring a woody.  It will calm down soon enough.  And I would imagine sooner or later you will wish you could still bone at a moment's notice!  HA HA

Will84

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Went to a gay nude beach and had a bit of the problem.  Found that there was a part of the beach where you could find help to take care of the problem.  All was good.

Last edited by Will84 (Dec 31, 2017 12:00:PM)

mrnewjersey

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

This is a very naughty post... Naughty Indeed!

lookingin2016

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

I haven't been to a nude beach, yet. I would like to find one. Would love to see that young hottie at the beach showing off his young hot hard cock. Not embarrassing at all, the wonderful part of a nature.

braxious

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

well your best option will be Grand Caneria

BigGingerSnack

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Why worry about staying soft?  If its an all male campground chances are they are all gay.  Lockerroom not the same.

enjoysuckindic

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

U are still young and those things happen.  I have been to a nude beach often and have had no problem with springing a boner, but maybe it is my age.  lol.

Alexdancer02

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Gay or str8 camp?

While catching up on the new posts on this thread I realized that I'm not sure from context is CallMeSam was addressing his question to me or to Brandon98

On the off chance it was me I have edited my original post to clarify that I meant - I wish there was a nudist camp near by that I could go to, especially an all male GAY nudist camp.

Now honestly I would not mind if the camp was all male and mixed gay and straight and bi.  But doubt any all male camps would not be gay.  And I'm not interested in being naked with naked women around. [smile]

dad10025

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

This is one of the things guys your age have missed out on, Brandon. Almost nobody your age has had mandatory group showers in school since 6th or 7th grade, as was common until the mid 1990s or so, by which time it was dying out. When I was in 8th grade I was petrified I'd get hard when we had showers after PE class, but I never did and I don't remember anyone else having much of an issue, either. By the time I was your age, I was used to being naked around other guys in non-sexual situations and not getting aroused.

Of course I'd go home and jerk off, fantasizing about the guys I'd seen.

But staying soft around hot guys, naked or not, is a skill you surely have, even if you haven't discovered it yet!

BTW, even in gay bathouses, you get used to being with naked guys in the sauna, steam room, hot tub, pool, etc., and once the novelty wears off, you'll find it takes some conscious effort on your part (or someone you are playing with) to get hard.

Alexdancer02

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Hey dad10025

Interesting perspective there and I suspect you are making some valid points.

My elementary/middle school had no locker room or showers.  But, I remember in my freshman year of high school (1975-76) the coaches did enforce mandatory showers after PE.  And the shower was one big room with several spigots and no dividers.  And like you commented, I was concerned about getting an erection, but it never happened.  I don’t recall anyone else getting one.

But that was the last year that we showered after PE.  Sophomore year and beyond it never happened.  By the time I was a senior I noticed some differences in self-consciousness about one’s body between myself and the younger kids who had never had that experience of forced communal nakedness.

Thank you for a thought, and memory provoking post.

PS – based on your picture dad10025, I might have to struggle more with not getting an erection if you were naked in a locker room or bathhouse with me.  You are much hotter than I recall my freshmen classmates being [wink]

mrnewjersey

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

this all sounds fishy to me... so you are going to a place where men know other men are going to be naked? sounds like this is a fake chat. I just don't see why you would ask such a ridiculous question since other men there are naked. So if this is true.. I don't care what you say or anyone else, but some of those men get off on seeing other men naked... period. They will probably also get off on seeing women and men wanting them to feed their ego.

Alexdancer02

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Well I cannot speak to the motivations of the original poster or any of the men posting in reply since I don’t know them personally.  So maybe, as mrnewjersey suggests, this is all “fake chat”.

However, taken at face value, I don’t see that there is anything “fishy” about any of this nor do I think the original poster’s question is ridiculous.  This could be a very legitimate concern for someone.

And for that matter, I do not find CallMeSam’s question ridiculous either.  That could also be an important point of clarification in answering Brandon98’s original question and allaying any concerns he may have.

Just because a young man is in a place where other men (and/or women) are naked does not mean it is considered appropriate by the other people there to walk around with a visible erection.

In the locker room at my gym there are a lot of men walking around in various levels of undress.  Some are completely naked and others have on underwear, jockstraps, or towels.  I have never seen ANYONE walking around with an erection and I know that it would make many of the guys uncomfortable if someone was walking around with a visible erection.   There is some gay cruising going on in locker room but it is handled very discreetly and always on watching out not to be “caught” by the straights and make them uncomfortable.

Furthermore, I know there are nudist camps which are family oriented.  These are used by straight couples with young children and teenage children in tow.  In some of these there are policies about keeping sexual activity and visible arousal out of the public view.  These are places where they think the naked body is not necessarily connected to sexual activity.

So if Brandon98 was attending some place like this his question makes perfect sense.  And it is a legitimate concern which he needs to address.

None of this denies, as mrnewjersey points out, that there may be some men (and women) there who would enjoy the fact that they are inducing visible arousal in other people there.  But just because some would enjoy it does not mean the majority of the people there would thing it is appropriate.

However CallMeSam’s question does raise an interesting distinction.  If it is a specifically “gay nudist camp” as opposed to a “general nudist camp” or “straight nudist camp” thing might be different and what is considered acceptable may be different.  At a nudist camp that is specifically catering the gay (all male) or homosexual (mixed gender) communities there may be less of a “family oriented nudity is wholesome” focus and more of a “nudity is titillating and exciting” focus.  If Brandon98 is at one of those places then I doubt he would have felt out of place with an erection.  He probably would have seen several. 

Of course I still would love to find some all male gay nudist camps/beaches to visit.

lastyln

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Re: Staying soft at nudist camps

Clothing option mens resorts in Palm Springs......manylocated on the area/street known as Warm Sands

Last edited by lastyln (Jan 14, 2018 9:37:AM)

freddie59

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I never had a problem getting hard in the shower with other guys....I was too nervous about it...